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Don’t Let Your Ex Control You Through Anger

Don’t stay in the same relationship that led to your separation. When your Ex pushes your buttons and keeps making you angry, it’s a way they can stay in control and keep you tied to the relationship. Find a way to communicate with your Ex that creates strong boundaries and allows you to discuss mutual goals for your kids without the anger. As soon as you can become indifferent to your Ex’s behavior, life will be a lot easier.

How Will Coronavirus Change Your Summer Parenting Plan?

Summer might look very different for your kids. There might not be summer camps, group sports, public swimming pools, or normal travel. Do you rely on grandparents or day-care during the summer break? Are you prepared for what covid-summer looks like? Do you have a plan for your kids in this upside-down world?

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What to do When Your Ex Gets a New Future-Ex

What do you do when you have to meet your Ex’s new partner for the first time? It will always be a big deal when your Ex gets a new Future-Ex but you’ll get through it and come out just fine! Here are five ways to handle it like a pro!

Can You Suspend Visitation During the Covid Crisis?

Can you suspend visitation if it’s dangerous to travel? What if your Ex has high exposure to Covid? What if your child is going into the home of people you don’t know? What if your Ex’s state has more lax rules than yours? What if you are afraid for your family?
Yes . . Maybe . . . No . . .? There are no answers so here’s how to resolve these questions without the Court.

Holidays

The Best Way to Change Your Parenting Schedule During the Holidays

The holidays come with lots of extra stress! Don’t let your Ex add their difficulties to the season. Learning how to co-parent peacefully is important but don’t let now be that time. Give yourself a break and delegate your stress!

What politics teaches us about co-parenting democrats vs republicans are like ex vs ex coparents

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What Politics Teaches Us About Divorce

In today’s state of divisive politics, one can learn a lot about conflict. The one thing politics can teach us is that it is necessary to work within a framework of rules and decorum in order to come together to make important decisions (such as how to raise happy, healthy, and productive humans!) If Republicans and Democrats can work together for the good of the country, you and your Ex can definitely Co-Parent without conflict for the good of your kids.