Holidays
Give Your Children the Gift of Peace, Love, & Hope for Christmas
The first Christmas after divorce and separation is hard on everyone. What will this new life look like over the holidays? It definitely won’t be
Resources, Hints & Tips for all things Co-Parenting
Text Your Ex offers services to make life easier post-separation. We make it possible to communicate with your Ex in a clear, concise, and polite manner so that you can make the best decisions possible for your kids without conflict.
Getting through divorce and separation requires more than one service. You must put in a tremendous amount of personal work and you need a lot of external support. We would like to make your journey to your new life as easy as possible so we have gathered all of the resources you could need whether you are just separating, in the middle of your divorce, or already have a final custody order. We offer free and personalized recommendations!
The difference between a stress and a trauma is finding a helping hand.
If there's anything you can't easily find - let us know!
RESOURCES
Find supporting services and resources for any stage of your separation.
ARTICLES
Find hints & tips for any issue you encounter with your Ex , your kids or your new journey.
PARENTING
PLANS
Sample parenting plans for all age ranges and circumstances.
BOOKS
Books for adults and kids to help you through the transition of separation.
Whether you’re just getting started in the process of separation and divorce or everything has been finalized, it’s never too early (or too late) to find professionals and services that will make you happier and your life easier.
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Whatever your co-parenting problem – you are not alone!!! You are almost guaranteed to find someone else who has dealt with an Ex like yours. It helps to hear about how others have conquered their situation (as well as get groundbreaking advice from Text Your Ex) so that you have an easier journey forward.
Co-Parenting Stress Solved
Is Your Ex a Crazy-Maker?
The stress of divorce pushes everyone to their very limit and then gives a good shove. Nobody is behaving the way they want to or the way they should. Sometimes a little patience will see you through but, unfortunately, there are a lot of people out there with a high-conflict personality. If you think you might be dealing with an Ex who has a personality disorder, recognizing this will be extremely helpful. You can adjust your approach and expectations and take better control of the situation.
Co-Parenting Stress Solved
Break the Cycle of Stress with Your Co-Parent
Stress creates MORE STRESS and makes everything harder, at a time when you are zapped of emotional and physical strength. The way you are communicating with your co-parent may have your trapped in a cycle of stress. Learn how to stop this cycle and take control of your life! Make co-parenting easy and stress-free!
Your New Life is Waiting
It’s Better to Ask for What You Want than to Complain About Not Having It.
So many times even when we make an effort to get along with an Ex, we can’t break our patterns of communication. We say things and hear things the way we always have. One way to begin better communication is to think about what we want and be direct in saying it. If we can be confident in our request, we create new space to negotiate and come to a mutual resolution where both parties can start to think about things in a more neutral and objective way.
Your Favorite Little Humans
Why Do Your Kids Leave Happy and Come Back Sad?
Kids who have parents in two homes are always saying goodbye to someone and hello to someone else. They have to balance between being sad to leave one parent and being happy to see the other. Imagine only being able to see one of your children at a given time and always having to choose which one you’ll share different experiences with. Transitions are tough, and you’ll see the stress in your child’s behavior, regardless of their age. Be patient, be kind, be supportive. This was not their choice and everyone needs a little extra help through this difficult time.
Conflict - Free & Loving It!
How to Make Peace When Your Ex is a Constant Warrior
Sometimes it can seem as if every interaction with your Ex ends up in a fight. If they used to be a reasonable person, then it may just be the result of the stress and uncertainty of your divorce. Things are difficult for everyone, try to be patient and follow these 3 tips to make things better now and in the years ahead.
Want to see what all of the options are for you and your kids? Parenting Plans are available by age range with developmental milestones and action plans for your kids. Want to personalize a plan so you have a solid idea to present to your attorney, mediator or Ex? Sign up for a Brainstorming Session!
Here are some fantastic co-parenting resources for helping you transition into a new life with guidance on how to deal with everything that surrounds divorce and separation. These books and podcasts are especially valuable for how to protect your children during this tumultuous time and how to make a quicker, easier, and smoother transition to your new life.
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The Services You Need to
co-parent stress-free
More Than an App
We don't just scan for 'appropriate' language but we let you say what you want and then work with you to communicate your goals. We provide interactive services for every message sent between you and your Ex.
Universal & Neutral Messages
Mediators make sure that each and every message is easily understood. We help clarify details and prevent misunderstandings. We make sure anyone would understand exactly what each person is saying.
Support for Issues Big & Small
Whether you dread any contact with your Ex or know that a certain topic is going to start a big fight - we can help. Instead of thinking about what your Ex said over and over again, contact us and we can help resolve things right away. We give you the peace of mind that any communication with your Ex will be calm and polite.
Real-Time Response
Your message goes out within 1 hour. Co-parents who are actively engaged get immediate translation in real-time without delay. Never wait for your attorney to return your call - you get professional services immediately!
Less Anger & Stress
It's always easier to talk to a 3rd Party about your problems than to the source of our problems. We help tamp down emotions and break the old patterns of communication. You and your Ex can listen to options with a more neutral ear and objective perspective.
Protect Your Kids from Conflict
Kids feel your pain; they know when their parents are mad or sad and it causes them stress. The more you can avoid conflict with your Ex, the easier it will be to work with your co-parent and life gets better for you AND your kids. We help you transition to your new role as Co-Parents conflict-free.
